Dementia Care Coach Corner: Written by Gabriela Mendoza
Life with memory loss as the person with the disease or as a caregiver is about planning, so it’s important to be prepared when it comes time for doctor’s visits with dementia – especially since appointments with specialists can be infrequent. Keep in mind that caregivers are managing their own health care needs, as well as the person they are providing support to. A person living with memory changes may need assistance with organizing their thoughts and questions. That is why it is beneficial to accompany a person living with this disease to their appointments. Caregivers can ensure that concerns are addressed and that any follow-up instructions are clear. Below are some suggestions on how to prepare and make the most of your doctors visit.
Preparing for Doctor’s Visits with Dementia
Prepare a list of questions and concerns beforehand and prioritize select items. Think about the last time you were at the doctor’s office. Are there any significant shifts, or is there a new symptom you would like guidance on?
It is crucial to keep your doctor up to date. Have there been any major changes since your last appointment, such as a visit to the emergency room, changes to appetite, weight, or sleep. Have you noticed any behavioral or changes to your mood? If you notice something out of the ordinary, make a note or start a journal of these changes. As the appointment nears, review your log and jot down of any trends or patterns.
You may also make a list of current medications and other vitamins or supplements for your doctor to review. This is particularly important if medications are prescribed by various doctors or specialists.
Connecting with the Doctor
If there are sensitive issues you wish to discuss, it may be helpful to send a message to your doctor before the appointment. If you are caring for someone who becomes anxious or agitated when discussing sensitive topics, you can make their experience less stressful by connecting with the doctor privately before the visit.
If your doctor provides instructions or recommends further follow-up, it can be helpful to write things down. Bring a calendar, notepad, or tablet for this purpose. If something is unclear, ask for clarification. Don’t hesitate to ask for written materials or additional information.
For personalized dementia support, call us at 858.492.4400 to speak with one of our Dementia Care Coaches who are here to help San Diego County residents and/or those caring for someone living in San Diego County (Spanish speakers available). Also check out our free education classes, social activities, caregiver support groups, & more.
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